Are You Setting Yourself Up For Failure?
Now of course this isn’t something that we would do on purpose??
The first thing we need to figure out is what is going on in that brain of yours!
What’s going on?
Are you afraid of something?
Do you have a problem with something or someone?
Where is this fear coming from?
Well I am going to try to help you out here OK! The best advice I can come up with is to Just Stop.
FORGET ABOUT YESTERDAY, FOCUS ON TODAY AND PLAN FOR TOMORROW
Think about it!
Yesterday is gone, it’s done! Whatever happened is over and there is nothing you can do about it. Right now, this very moment is all you have so just enjoy it!
No you are not a failure!
We are all human and will make mistakes, but take these and learn from them.
Yes Life Happens! No matter how you want things in your life to turn out, always and I mean always be prepared for life to throw you plenty of curveballs.
Failure is good for the soul, if you never fail, how will you learn? Making mistakes is also part of life so you had just better get used to it! When you failed at something, you tryed, and from this you will do better next time!
So next let’s talk about what is holding you back and yes you will need to have all of this written out on paper. Getting your thoughts on paper is so important!
If you are having a hard time, reach out and ask for help, sometimes talking with someone can help to get the process started.
Trust me it is going to very scary at first, talking to someone about Your Fears!
Perhaps This Is A Fear!!
Stop running away from fear!
Let things happen, dont run away!
Go head and give this a try!
Stand in front of the mirror and really look at yourself. Stare yourself in the eyes and ask yourself are you really doing everything possible to make things happen?
Ask yourself do you have all the skills to get the job done?
You need to be very truthful here because if you are not you will never be able to fix the problem! You cannot fix something if you don’t know what is going on within.
So quit lying to youself! If you cannot look at yourslf in the mirror and be truthful then you may as well just give up and quit!
At this point your probably thinking….
No I am not kidding you!
This is an important step to help you conquer your fears and help you get clear about what you want and and what is stopping you from reaching your goals in life!
The most important thing you can do for yourself is to TAKE ACTION!
Oh Yeh I have always been an action taker and Yes I have learned that fears are just fears!
They are created by YOU!
By Your Imagination!
Now when you take action, you face those fears and therefore they become weaker and you realize they were not that scary after all.
Many of us are afraid of failure, but like I said above it is not really failure if we learn from this. Trust me the world will not come to and end because you failed at something!
When you are ready to face up to the things that make you most afraid, you will learn that they were not as scary as your originally thought.
Failure Is Just Your Stepping Stone To Success!
Trust In Yourself!
You really cannot fail if you have a positive mindset!
Change your mindset by thinking that you are already where you want to be, you have that great job, awesome business, the best partner ever, money or whatever it is that you want.
Once you start believing that you are worthy, is when your life will start to change for the better.
You are the only one who can make the decisions that are right for you!
YOU Have the answers, so get out there and take action and start being the best you can be!
No Failure Here!!
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Here’s To Success
Here’s To Happiness
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